Saturday, August 13, 2011

Bed Upgrade and New Dining Table

Over a year after we've tolerated squeezing onto a Full-sized bed for the sake of saving up for house repairs, Tung and I finally decided to upgrade to a bigger bed. We spent a while debating on the best size to move up to. Both our parents, being relatively normal and petite Asian size, are sleeping on Queen beds, which in reality is only 6 inches bigger than a Full. That means each of us gets 3 extra inches after the upgrade. Hmm, that doesn't sound like that great of a deal. Buying into the American mentality, "The more you buy, the more you save," we decided that if we're going to upgrade, might as well aim big. After all, a King doesn't cost that much more than a Queen, but you get a whopping 18-22 inches more space than a Full.

Then came the debate, California or Eastern King? The choice seemed obvious to us in our ignorance--we'd prefer the width over the length, both being not very tall people, and besides, due to the shape of our room and the furniture we already have in it, having more space at the foot of the bed for the sake of heavy traffic seemed like a good idea.

Thus, we started to shop around at various furniture stores (and really should have gotten the hint when all the salespeople kept re-questioning our decision to get an Eastern vs. a California King). Amazingly, after nit-picking over various bed frame styles, we both honed in on the Martini Suite collection by Ashley at Ramos Furniture. That's how you immediately know it's "the one." It was a bit over our budget, as was the Simmons Beautyrest mattress we bought at a different store, Payless Furniture, where we actually got extreme hookups on the price. But we figure this would be a keeper over the years and therefore a logical investment.

Here's a picture of my old, Full-sized bed frame. Tung's friend took the mattress off our hands for his children to use, and we ended up donating the frame to Salvation Army to make space in the rooms.


We finished shopping for both bed and frame by early July and eagerly anticipated the delivery. Enter the beginning of a nightmare. After having to call Ramos once and coming back to the store to sign for an "Easter King" (yes, literally, that's how the salesgirl spelled it) instead of a Cal-King like she had originally written us down for, we thought that the Eastern King was what we would get delivered to us. Well, we did get an Eastern King--but also about 3/4 of a Cal-King. Two parts of the bed--the right side rail and the slat roll--were the wrong size for our spanking-new, Eastern King mattress, which wouldn't fit in the frame.



Anyway, long and frustrating story short, which included several phone calls, several threats to throttle people, several rounds of re-delivery, and several communication issues with the sales and delivery people, we finally got the correct bed parts delivered and assembled. You don't know irritation until you paid buck-loads for a huge piece of furniture that comes in the wrong size, and you can't use it until 2 months later.



Notice that in the "Before" picture above (which features Tung's box-frame bed that we used after mine was hauled away), Tung was still living with my ghetto-rigged moving box/night stand on the left. We also bought matching night stands from the Martini collection. It took me a while to get over the size-shock of this bad boy in our Master bedroom after having slept on a Full for so long. I kept on having to tell myself that it would be much like when I upgraded to the Full from my old Twin bed. It feels like there's no open space left in the room, but once you lie on all that luxury, you never want to go back to the smaller size!


So the lesson here, folks, is that if you live in California and want to upgrade to a King-sized bed, for the love of Pete, if you could at all fit it in your room, buy a Cal-King instead of an Eastern King! Wasn't the regular (Eastern) King size once the norm? Now, it's almost impossible to find linens in EK! Like our mattress and bed frame, it's like you've got to special-order EK linens. But, major problem hurdled. I can't wait to sleep on my new bed with fresh linens tonight.

And while furniture shopping, we also bought a replacement for the small dining set the previous house owners left us, affectionately dubbed by us as "the bitch table." From a work surface for home-improvement projects to a place where we could toss junk of any kind, that table with its several chairs of ripped-up leather served us for a year-and-a-half. Getting rid of it was a bigger ordeal than we thought, as no charity would take it with 4 passable chairs left that weren't ripped.



Nothing like newness. Notice that we covered the microfiber seats with a vinyl layer, in anticipation of the messiness of our future kids, and also because we're cheap that way and aren't looking to replace this set anytime soon.


Furniture bundle deals are great, even if we did go a bit above budget. After all, "Bigger is better," and "The more you buy, the more you save!"


Sunday, July 31, 2011

Engagement Pictures, Session 1



Under the Arbor

Gentle Touch

Entwined
A Flower for Daisy

Playtime

Among the Flowers

Rustic

Sun and Shade


Serenity



Lavender Fields

Pixie Love



A Moment in the Garden
Depths of Love

Locked
Cuz Love Hurts So Good

Illumination

"Git Over Here!"


Hushed



With This Ring...
...I Thee Wed!

Peek-a-Boo
Standing Tall

Reminiscing

Papers-Scissors-Rocks!


Saturday, July 23, 2011

Di Xi's Bridal Shower




On July 23rd, I threw a bridal shower for Tung's aunt, who will get married this September. Here's the gift table with the party favors and some note cards for guests to write down some advice for the bride.



Setting up the food table . . .


Di Xi (front) goofs off with one of her guests.


The day starts off with some games, such as "Pass the Bouquet."


Everyone gathers around the table to snack on strawberries and play written games.


Phew, competing for gift cards by playing games is hard work. Time for a break! Here's a toast with Chandon champagne and guava cake.


Di Xi slices the cake as practice for the big day.


Gift time! Posing with one of her bridesmaids.


What party would be complete without ending with some Dance Central? The bride-to-be boogies:


And finally, the group shot:


Monday, July 4, 2011

4th of July 2011


My man's grillin' up some mean Top Dogs lemon-chicken sausages for the 4th. Looks like he's picked up a few things from the last time Gene-O was here.



Mmm, nothing like good eatin's with the family in your very own house around the holidays.





Saturday, July 2, 2011

Cake Tasting with Di Xi


Tung and I recently went cake-tasting with his aunt and her fiancee at Margaret's French Bakery. We sample a variety of cakes, from whites to dark chocolates. This is the fun part of wedding planning!



We thought we'd get in some early practice sessions before our wedding.




If it were up to Tung, all four layers of the cake would be mocha.


Friday, July 1, 2011

WTF Week

A series of unfortunate events is when your home security gets compromised and you end up having to do this again:


Dammit, and I thought our days of paintbrush and paint flecks all over a decidedly-disposable outfit were long over. . .


Apparently, there is more work to be done to the place after a period of idleness, including taking out those ugly spiky trees in the front that obstruct vision.


And just when we think things couldn't get worse, this happens, barely missing Tung's car (and Tung, as he was on his way out of the house) by that much:


Luckily, we have such considerate neighbors, who recognized the strange curse that has gone on in our lives lately, to do this for us:


And as to the security issues, I'm doing this: