Wednesday, June 10, 2015

TTC: CHART 17 (2/19/15-3/18/15)



Letrozole is a newer drug used for infertility. Statistically, Clomid has a longer history of success for non-ovulatory women. Because Letrozole is also used to treat breast cancer, health insurance companies will scrutinize a prescription for infertility. I need to get a doctor’s prior authorization before I can get my hands on the drug. Otherwise, it’s $55 for 5 pills. HOWEVER, if I have my prescription sent to Costco’s pharmacy, they charge $6 for the prescription out-of-pocket without having to go through my insurance. It comes in a bottle with all these warning stickers affixed to it; no wonder insurance companies are freaked out:

"Do not take if pregnant or planning to become pregnant."
"For use to treat breast cancer in women after menopause."
"Shown to cause harm in the human fetus."

It is still safe to use, though, as it has a very fast half-life, meaning it does its job and disappears from my system long before fertilization occurs after I take the last pill.

I switch from 100mg of Clomid to the starting dose of 2.5mg of Letrozole. I’m apprehensive whether starting a new drug will help me ovulate at a decent time in my cycle, but I hope to go 3 for 3, which is some kind of PCOS world record. My “treat” for starting a new cycle is indulging in something healthy for my body—I’d run on the treadmill and succumb to abs- and high-aerobic workouts that I don’t dare to perform while in the TWW. I miss aikido like hell, but it doesn’t make sense to sporadically go back on and drop off during the TWW. Our date nights are not going out to watch 50 Shades of Grey but, being as how we met through martial arts and enjoy watching a good fight, we go to see the UFC match between Ronda Rousey and Cat Zingano. Rousey’s got a bit of an attitude and is definitely not the nicest or friendliest gal you'll find in the ring. She's definitely got beef with some of her opponents, but the girl's got skillz. I also like her philosophy of self-reliance and not expecting anything to come easy for her; it’s like you need to harness her headstrong martial spirit to make it through the rough journey of TTC.

Now that I’ve mastered going without alcohol, in an effort to wean myself off caffeine, I switch to peppermint tea, which is also supposed to have a “warming” effect on the uterus. It’s an acquired taste, and to me it feels like I accidentally swallowed warm toothpaste water, but I’ve been through the Chinese herbal teas, so now I can get through anything. Bring on the peppermint tea, Clomid, and Letrozole. A coworker sees me brewing tea in the Break Room, and she asks why cutting out caffeine is a trend lately. I make an excuse that I personally am sensitive to caffeine and am trying alternatives to even green tea. She then asks if I drink alcohol, and I say not for the past 3 months. In retrospect, I should've just responded with a vague "No," but immediately she cocks her eyebrow and blurts out, "Are you pregnant?" I grit my teeth and say no, just trying to be healthy.

I get so excited about my follicle ultrasound days that I'm like a giggly schoolgirl finding it hard to sleep. My OPK turns positive this cycle before I even trigger, and at the ultrasound appointment, they find a follicle on my left side measuring at 25mm, perfectly ripe. They decide to do the Ovidrel trigger shot right away. I'm performing great on the Letrozole--textbook ovulation near CD13, and my endometrium this time measures at a cushy 10mm when they look for a minimum of 7mm.

Most people aren’t advised to take Clomid or Letrozole beyond five cycles as the chances of success don't improve much beyond then. Timing is huge for IUI cycles as after the sperm wash (which is necessary to prevent bacteria from getting past the cervix, thereby causing an infection), sperm end up not living as long (they live for up to five days in ideal Cervical Fluid if "released" naturally). Trigger shots usually cause women to ovulate 36 hours afterward, and for that reason, the IUI is scheduled for 1-2 days after the trigger shot is administered. An egg usually lives 48 hours after ovulation. On March 4th 2015, we go in for our second IUI. This time, my OB has to employ the tenaculum to hold the cervix in place for the catheter insertion, along with the speculum.

Nearing the end of the TWW for this cycle, I can’t help but fall into a despondence despite my best efforts to remain optimistic. Maybe the financial and emotional investment of an IUI and the thought of having to do it again and having fewer chances of success after the third round is really getting to me. I can't help thinking, "What if an IUI doesn't work for us?" I get moody at slow and stupid people I encounter in public and think, “Tazing idiots in public should be fully legalized.”

March 17th 2015, I take another HPT test (I lost count of how many by now) to see yet another negative. I’m ready to get off the Crazy rollercoaster. I become so dejected that I break down and lose my will to go to work. I can't push away these thoughts of, "I CAN'T do it." I can't get pregnant. I can be the first of my father's family to finish college, I can score a career and excel, I can become one of the youngest promoted female managers, I can plan a wedding and find a man I love and want to share my life with, I can buy a house, I can travel the world, I can be responsible for another living being by adopting dogs...but I can't get pregnant. It is morally defeating, and I'm not sure I've learned how to deal with working so hard for something I haven't yet achieved. I drag myself to the warm comfort of the bed, secretly put a pillow on my tummy just to see what it's like to have it grow, and grieve.

Takeaways: There are reflexology points near your ankles and at the webs of your hands that can bring on uterine contractions. TTC’ers and pregnant women should avoid massages around these regions. When at the dentist, pregnant women should try to avoid or use more caution if getting x-rays and make sure their dentist uses a pregnancy-safe anesthetic if needed as some can raise a patient’s heart rate.

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